Sunday, June 28, 2009

I have been neglectful in posting..Shame on me. I have been working hard at work. I have also been put in a few county committees that take up some of my time. Our county recived a grant from the federal gov't to help make the mental health services in our county better for children from birth -21. ( I still have to see a newborn with mental health issues! )
I have been helping to run a Girls Circle on Monday nights. I have never met girls who are so hard to get through to, who want to cause problems and not want to be a part of things. We handed out stress balls one week. One of the girls asked " what do you do if stress balls make you stressed?" Is it making you stressed? "no, just wondering. but wha tif this green on was making me stressed?" well is it? " NO, but it could" What do you thhink you should do if it makes you stressed? "I have no idea, I am not stressed, I am never stressed there is nothing wrong with me" Ok, good to know....

I haven't been to see grandson since he was about 2 weeks olld. We have had germs here in the hosue and they do not want him to get the germs from us. It is quite all right for flu-ridden people to go and visit as long as they are not on our side of the family though. I am tired of things being ok for the other side of that family but not for mine. SHE and baby are not coming to a cookout to see my family that is visiting because I might let the Pastor and his family over to see the baby...at least that is what SHE and the other grandmother say...They do not want my pastor and his family to even see the baby. Seems like they keep forgetting that his family helped SHE not have the abortion and if the abortion had happened there'd be no baby....I have decided the best thing for me is to not call and if SHE wants to talk to me, SHE knows where I am....

The other kids are doing so great!!! School is out and they have taken over doing chores for me... itis a wonderful thing!!!

6 comments:

Terri said...

I know how it is Becky...sometimes I go awhile without posting when things are so busy...

I'm sorry your daughter is having a problem with your side of the family being around the baby and not the other...that has to be so hard...keeping you in my prayers that , that situation gets better...cause I know you want to spend time with your precious grandson...

I'm glad the other kids are doing well and taking over chores...thats a huge plus! :)

Hope you have a good week
Hugs
Terri

Lisa said...

Hope you are having a great summer!! I love help with the chores!
Lisa

Anonymous said...

I don't think you've been neglectful. You've been DOING. The doing is much more important than the writing about it. ~Mary

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Unknown said...

The stress ball bit was making me stress, Becky!! It sucks that sometimes the people who need the most help are the ones who fight it the most.

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