Wednesday, September 23, 2009

where have I been?







trying to keep things together...we are down to one car right now...Ernie is working the day shift . He was hurt at work and is on light duty and that put him doing clerical stuff. He has a mallet pinky finger and until that is better, he cannot restrain patients. It has been fun trying to figure out how we are going to get the 2 of us to work when we work in opposite directions. God has been so good and we have had cars/vans to borrow from friends.






the kids are back in school and doing well. so far! Teen is excited about her Senior year! hard to believe! She is in Tri-M which is a music honor society....so thrilled with that. She is working very hard on college applications.



Tuesday, July 21, 2009

just pics of the kids having fun...
















Friday, July 17, 2009

Busy busy busy....what can I say...miss you all....

Son got braces,,will post pics later,,, he left for Scout camp Sunday @ 11A.M., got a call @ 10:30P.M. that Scout Master was bringing him home as he passed out at 10P.M.
Dehydration...he left for camp again noon on Monday. He should be home tonight....

Teen just left at noon today to go camping with a family from church and will be back next Friday.

DQ is home with not much planned...have to find something special for her.....I think Ern and I will take her out for dinner. She might spend a few nights with a friend.

SHE and I are not talking. I have stopped calling her. I have not not been allowed to see the baby because I usually carry other people's germs. A few weeks ago, I invited her to come to a cook-out at my house. The Evil Woman kept asking if the Pastor's family was going to be there, I kept saying no. They kept telling me they did not believe me, that I ALWAYS lie and they can't believe a word I say. When I told Ern why SHE and the baby weren't coming I said SHE and Evil Woman called me a liar. When SHE talked to Ern and he confronted her about the conversation SHE had with me, SHE got upset and said SHE never called me a liar. When Ern asked me about it, I had to agree that SHE did not use the word liar but to say that they did not believe anything I say and that all I do is lie is to call me a liar. SHE takes things so literally, so in her mind, if SHE did not say the word Liar, SHE did not call me one. I have decided that if they feel all I do is lie, I am not going to be the one to initiate the calls. SHE can call me when SHE wants to talk.

Work is keeping me busy!!! and that is a good thing these days

Saturday, July 4, 2009

IN CONGRESS, JULY 4, 1776
The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America
When in the Course of human events it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the political bands which have connected them with another and to assume among the powers of the earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature's God entitle them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. — That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, — That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness. Prudence, indeed, will dictate that Governments long established should not be changed for light and transient causes; and accordingly all experience hath shewn that mankind are more disposed to suffer, while evils are sufferable than to right themselves by abolishing the forms to which they are accustomed. But when a long train of abuses and usurpations, pursuing invariably the same Object evinces a design to reduce them under absolute Despotism, it is their right, it is their duty, to throw off such Government, and to provide new Guards for their future security. — Such has been the patient sufferance of these Colonies; and such is now the necessity which constrains them to alter their former Systems of Government. The history of the present King of Great Britain is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations, all having in direct object the establishment of an absolute Tyranny over these States. To prove this, let Facts be submitted to a candid world.
He has refused his Assent to Laws, the most wholesome and necessary for the public good.
He has forbidden his Governors to pass Laws of immediate and pressing importance, unless suspended in their operation till his Assent should be obtained; and when so suspended, he has utterly neglected to attend to them.
He has refused to pass other Laws for the accommodation of large districts of people, unless those people would relinquish the right of Representation in the Legislature, a right inestimable to them and formidable to tyrants only.
He has called together legislative bodies at places unusual, uncomfortable, and distant from the depository of their Public Records, for the sole purpose of fatiguing them into compliance with his measures.
He has dissolved Representative Houses repeatedly, for opposing with manly firmness his invasions on the rights of the people.
He has refused for a long time, after such dissolutions, to cause others to be elected, whereby the Legislative Powers, incapable of Annihilation, have returned to the People at large for their exercise; the State remaining in the mean time exposed to all the dangers of invasion from without, and convulsions within.
He has endeavoured to prevent the population of these States; for that purpose obstructing the Laws for Naturalization of Foreigners; refusing to pass others to encourage their migrations hither, and raising the conditions of new Appropriations of Lands.
He has obstructed the Administration of Justice by refusing his Assent to Laws for establishing Judiciary Powers.
He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries.
He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent hither swarms of Officers to harass our people and eat out their substance.
He has kept among us, in times of peace, Standing Armies without the Consent of our legislatures.
He has affected to render the Military independent of and superior to the Civil Power.
He has combined with others to subject us to a jurisdiction foreign to our constitution, and unacknowledged by our laws; giving his Assent to their Acts of pretended Legislation:
For quartering large bodies of armed troops among us:
For protecting them, by a mock Trial from punishment for any Murders which they should commit on the Inhabitants of these States:
For cutting off our Trade with all parts of the world:
For imposing Taxes on us without our Consent:
For depriving us in many cases, of the benefit of Trial by Jury:
For transporting us beyond Seas to be tried for pretended offences:
For abolishing the free System of English Laws in a neighbouring Province, establishing therein an Arbitrary government, and enlarging its Boundaries so as to render it at once an example and fit instrument for introducing the same absolute rule into these Colonies
For taking away our Charters, abolishing our most valuable Laws and altering fundamentally the Forms of our Governments:
For suspending our own Legislatures, and declaring themselves invested with power to legislate for us in all cases whatsoever.
He has abdicated Government here, by declaring us out of his Protection and waging War against us.
He has plundered our seas, ravaged our coasts, burnt our towns, and destroyed the lives of our people.
He is at this time transporting large Armies of foreign Mercenaries to compleat the works of death, desolation, and tyranny, already begun with circumstances of Cruelty & Perfidy scarcely paralleled in the most barbarous ages, and totally unworthy the Head of a civilized nation.
He has constrained our fellow Citizens taken Captive on the high Seas to bear Arms against their Country, to become the executioners of their friends and Brethren, or to fall themselves by their Hands.
He has excited domestic insurrections amongst us, and has endeavoured to bring on the inhabitants of our frontiers, the merciless Indian Savages whose known rule of warfare, is an undistinguished destruction of all ages, sexes and conditions.
In every stage of these Oppressions We have Petitioned for Redress in the most humble terms: Our repeated Petitions have been answered only by repeated injury. A Prince, whose character is thus marked by every act which may define a Tyrant, is unfit to be the ruler of a free people.
Nor have We been wanting in attentions to our British brethren. We have warned them from time to time of attempts by their legislature to extend an unwarrantable jurisdiction over us. We have reminded them of the circumstances of our emigration and settlement here. We have appealed to their native justice and magnanimity, and we have conjured them by the ties of our common kindred to disavow these usurpations, which would inevitably interrupt our connections and correspondence. They too have been deaf to the voice of justice and of consanguinity. We must, therefore, acquiesce in the necessity, which denounces our Separation, and hold them, as we hold the rest of mankind, Enemies in War, in Peace Friends.
We, therefore, the Representatives of the united States of America, in General Congress, Assembled, appealing to the Supreme Judge of the world for the rectitude of our intentions, do, in the Name, and by Authority of the good People of these Colonies, solemnly publish and declare, That these united Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States, that they are Absolved from all Allegiance to the British Crown, and that all political connection between them and the State of Great Britain, is and ought to be totally dissolved; and that as Free and Independent States, they have full Power to levy War, conclude Peace, contract Alliances, establish Commerce, and to do all other Acts and Things which Independent States may of right do. — And for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes, and our sacred Honor.
John Hancock
New Hampshire:Josiah Bartlett, William Whipple, Matthew Thornton
Massachusetts:John Hancock, Samuel Adams, John Adams, Robert Treat Paine, Elbridge Gerry
Rhode Island:Stephen Hopkins, William Ellery
Connecticut:Roger Sherman, Samuel Huntington, William Williams, Oliver Wolcott
New York:William Floyd, Philip Livingston, Francis Lewis, Lewis Morris
New Jersey:Richard Stockton, John Witherspoon, Francis Hopkinson, John Hart, Abraham Clark
Pennsylvania:Robert Morris, Benjamin Rush, Benjamin Franklin, John Morton, George Clymer, James Smith, George Taylor, James Wilson, George Ross
Delaware:Caesar Rodney, George Read, Thomas McKean
Maryland:Samuel Chase, William Paca, Thomas Stone, Charles Carroll of Carrollton
Virginia:George Wythe, Richard Henry Lee, Thomas Jefferson, Benjamin Harrison, Thomas Nelson, Jr., Francis Lightfoot Lee, Carter Braxton
North Carolina:William Hooper, Joseph Hewes, John Penn
South Carolina:Edward Rutledge, Thomas Heyward, Jr., Thomas Lynch, Jr., Arthur Middleton
Georgia:Button Gwinnett, Lyman Hall, George Walton

Thursday, July 2, 2009

I have been hiccupppping for the past 20ish minutes...... my belly hurts.....
none of the old wive's tales type cures are helping.....
hiccup....

Sunday, June 28, 2009

I have been neglectful in posting..Shame on me. I have been working hard at work. I have also been put in a few county committees that take up some of my time. Our county recived a grant from the federal gov't to help make the mental health services in our county better for children from birth -21. ( I still have to see a newborn with mental health issues! )
I have been helping to run a Girls Circle on Monday nights. I have never met girls who are so hard to get through to, who want to cause problems and not want to be a part of things. We handed out stress balls one week. One of the girls asked " what do you do if stress balls make you stressed?" Is it making you stressed? "no, just wondering. but wha tif this green on was making me stressed?" well is it? " NO, but it could" What do you thhink you should do if it makes you stressed? "I have no idea, I am not stressed, I am never stressed there is nothing wrong with me" Ok, good to know....

I haven't been to see grandson since he was about 2 weeks olld. We have had germs here in the hosue and they do not want him to get the germs from us. It is quite all right for flu-ridden people to go and visit as long as they are not on our side of the family though. I am tired of things being ok for the other side of that family but not for mine. SHE and baby are not coming to a cookout to see my family that is visiting because I might let the Pastor and his family over to see the baby...at least that is what SHE and the other grandmother say...They do not want my pastor and his family to even see the baby. Seems like they keep forgetting that his family helped SHE not have the abortion and if the abortion had happened there'd be no baby....I have decided the best thing for me is to not call and if SHE wants to talk to me, SHE knows where I am....

The other kids are doing so great!!! School is out and they have taken over doing chores for me... itis a wonderful thing!!!

Friday, June 19, 2009

Ethan the #10 Honor scout and jenna's 8th grade dance


























Where does the time go?